In a recent episode of the Iltalehti podcast focused on narcissism in families, psychotherapist Marjut Niemelä discusses the profound impact of narcissistic parenting styles on infants and how these issues can manifest from an early age. She notes that the way a parent interacts with their child, particularly through eye contact and affection, can shape the child's perception of self-worth and emotional security. Narcissistic parents may exhibit behaviors that deprive their children of the nurturing and validation they need to thrive.

Niemelä explains that narcissistic parenting begins almost immediately after a child's birth. From the early stages, if a child's parents show 'empty eyes' that do not engage with the baby, the child begins to feel undervalued and unrecognized. This lack of meaningful interaction can lead to feelings of stress and neglect, as the infant senses they are not a priority for their parent. Such behavior not only affects the immediate bonding experience but can also have long-term implications for the child's psychological development.

The podcast and its insights shed light on the importance of nurturing early parent-child relationships and the potential consequences of failing to provide an emotionally supportive environment. As children grow, they begin to recognize their parent's narcissism, which can further complicate their emotional and psychological development, highlighting the critical need for awareness and intervention in cases of narcissistic parenting.