In a recent episode of Iltalehti's podcast focusing on narcissism, psychology emerita professor Liisa Keltikangas-Järvinen elaborates on the nature of friendships involving individuals with narcissistic traits. She discusses how narcissists often appear to have a large social network, engaging with many people, which can create an illusion of widespread friendship. However, the reality is that while they might be active in various social settings, few are truly friends who can establish deep and meaningful relationships with them.

Keltikangas-Järvinen emphasizes that the actual circle of true friends for a narcissist is often very small, if it exists at all. This inability to cultivate genuine reciprocal relationships stems from the narcissist's inherent personality traits, which interfere with the development of sincere companionship. Instead of supportive and mutual friendships, narcissists often surround themselves with a surface-level entourage that ultimately falls short of emotional depth.

The podcast also explores the concept of the narcissist's so-called court, examining who comprises their inner circle and why these individuals are drawn to them. The discussion serves as a reminder of the seriousness of narcissistic personality disorder and highlights the complexities involved in interpersonal relationships with such individuals, shedding light on the challenges faced by those in their proximity.