In his reflection, Hrvoje Hitrec draws upon historical tensions between Croats and Serbs, particularly focusing on the current cultural and political climate in Croatia. He notes how cultural symbols have been politicized and how this affects everyday life, including language use and societal interactions. He underlines the importance of dialogue and shared cultural experiences, suggesting that unity can be fostered through common celebrations, such as weddings, which traditionally brought together people from different ethnic backgrounds.

Hitrec also examines the linguistic battle surrounding terms that are associated with historical narratives in Croatia, emphasizing the tension between nationalist sentiments and more inclusive views. The author references an incident from the 1970s where specific words were rejected in academic discourse due to their perceived connections to nationalist ideologies. This reflects a broader trend in Croatian society where language not only serves a communicative function but is also loaded with political significance, often creating barriers instead of bridges between communities.

Finally, the article advocates for a future where Croats and Serbs, along with other ethnic groups in the region, can share spaces of celebration and reconciliation. Hitrec’s views suggest that overcoming historical grievances is essential for a harmonious coexistence, indicating that such efforts can begin at fundamental social gatherings that celebrate life, hence proposing a vision of collective unity rather than division.