What is the Role of a Mother? K-Mothering Lecture Opens
The Counseling Psychology Department of Wonkwang Digital University held a special lecture on K-Mothering featuring author Seo Hye-jin, discussing the evolving role of mothers in Korea.
The Counseling Psychology Department at Wonkwang Digital University, led by Kim Young-hye, hosted a special lecture on K-Mothering on the 14th of the month at its Seoul campus. The guest speaker, Dr. Seo Hye-jin, author of "Re-starting Mothering," emphasized the necessity for Korean mothers to transition from the role of mere managers in their children’s education—often pressured by an exam-oriented education system—to becoming proactive navigators who explore life directions with their children. This shift is suggested to alleviate burdens such as anxiety, guilt, and excessive educational expenses that mothers often face.
Dr. Seo introduced eight principles of mothering—sensitivity, enjoyable relationships, delegation of authority, consistency, skill development, reflection, discernment, and motivation—as a standard to help mothers break free from the pressures of societal expectations and focus on their children’s well-being. She asserted that changing a mother’s role can significantly impact a child’s future. The lecture also addressed key concepts from her works, such as family habitus, emotional capital, maternal self-care, and SPECTRUM mothering, using real-life examples to enhance understanding among attendees.
During the Q&A session, students in their youth and middle age engaged with the author, discussing their experiences and thoughts on motherhood and personal lives. Many expressed sincere reflections, acknowledging that fostering a nurturing environment and empowering their children with strength is far more valuable than monetary solutions. The event was praised for re-evaluating mothering not merely as educational strategies or investment principles, but as perspectives on life principles and attitudes. Kim Young-hye remarked that even those who have not experienced good mothering in their growth process can possess the inner strength to practice it well, hoping this would lead to self-acceptance and personal growth for attendees.