In Singapore, the total fertility rate (TFR) has plummeted to a record low of 0.87 children per woman in 2025, a significant drop from 0.97 in the previous year. This alarming trend presents serious implications for the nation's future, with Deputy Prime Minister Gan Kim Yong warning of an 'existential challenge' that could affect society, the economy, and national security. The government has implemented various incentives over the past four decades to encourage parenthood, but many Singaporeans like Boon Shang express hesitation about starting families.

Boon Shang, an accountant, reflects a growing sentiment among couples in Singapore who feel unprepared to have children unless they are genuinely ready. The societal pressure to meet life milestones, such as parenthood, conflicts with personal feelings and readiness, highlighting a significant cultural shift in attitudes towards family planning. Despite government efforts, including financial incentives and parental support policies, the deep-rooted societal concerns and hesitations about the feasibility of raising children in Singapore continue to contribute to the declining fertility rates.

As Singapore grapples with this demographic crisis, the government faces pressing questions about how to effectively navigate the complexities of modern family life. The decline in fertility rates raises concerns not only for the immediate future of Singapore's population but also for its long-term economic sustainability. Adjusting to these challenges will require not just policy changes, but also a shift in societal perspectives towards family and parenthood.