Marius Borg Høiby, the son of the crown prince of Norway, is currently on trial in the Oslo District Court for several serious offenses, including allegations of sexual assault. A key piece of evidence presented by the prosecution includes various degrading messages Høiby sent to a male friend regarding a young woman. The nature of these messages was so offensive that media outlets covering the trial, such as VG, chose not to publish them. Høiby has characterized these communications as 'disgusting boys' talk' and stated that they were meant only for private exchange between him and his best friend.

In the courtroom, Høiby expressed regret over the messages, asserting that it was never his intention for anyone else to see them. He tried to convince law enforcement not to include the communications in court proceedings, emphasizing his concern for the young woman's privacy. Høiby’s use of the term 'joke' in his defense reflects a problematic understanding of consent and personal boundaries, revealing deeper societal issues regarding the treatment of women within male-dominated social groups.

As this case unfolds, it is not only a reflection of Høiby’s personal challenges but also brings to light broader conversations about respect, accountability, and the need for cultural change in how young men engage in discussions about women. The public interest in this trial may influence future discussions on these critical matters in Norway and beyond, highlighting the importance of addressing toxic masculinity and fostering a more respectful dialogue.