The girls are worshipped as goddesses – and then forced to leave everything at puberty
In Nepal, young girls are chosen to be worshipped as living goddesses until they reach puberty, at which point they face the challenge of reintegrating into society.
In Nepal, the tradition of worshipping young girls, known as 'Kumari', sees them revered as living goddesses until they reach puberty. This cultural practice involves selecting prepubescent girls who are deemed to have divine qualities, and these girls live in temples or designated residences, where they are treated with utmost respect and honor, engaging with community members who come to seek blessings. The transition from being a goddess to returning to a normal life can be jarring, as the girls must leave behind this revered role and adapt to newfound societal expectations and normalcy.
Chanira Bajracherya, who was only 14 when she was displaced from her position, shared her poignant feelings of loss about leaving her goddess role. She recalls the stark contrast of life as a Kumari, filled with adoration and responsibilities, to the challenges faced once she steps back into reality. Her reflections highlight the emotional and psychological impacts on these girls, who often struggle with their identities after their time as revered deities comes to an end.
The practice of Kumari raises broader questions about gender roles and the expectations placed on women in Nepali society. While some see it as an important cultural heritage, there are rising discussions about the implications for the girls involved, advocating for changes that would allow for the preservation of tradition while also considering the well-being and agency of these young women.