Just Like That
The author reflects on the implications of sharing a name with his father and the associated mix-ups and confusions that arise throughout life.
In this personal narrative, the author discusses the significance of sharing a name with his father, Víctor Manuel Pombinho Soares. He references Michel Houellebecq's notion that having a child and passing on one's genes is a feeble form of immortality, suggesting that naming a child after oneself might offer a sense of continuity. The choice of his name, reportedly made by his mother out of love for his father, becomes a source of both connection and minor inconveniences in his life.
As the author recounts, growing up, he often faced questions about which 'Víctor' was being referred to—whether it was 'grande' (the father) or 'chico' (the son). These inquiries evolve over the years, reflecting the changing dynamics of his relationship with his father. In his youth, the confusion was more innocent, mostly arising from phone calls at home, but as he transitioned into adulthood, these misunderstandings turned more significant, affecting practical matters like receiving mail and managing correspondence.
The narrative eloquently illustrates the complexities of identity, familial ties, and the challenges posed by having the same name as a loved one. It raises broader themes of legacy and connection, highlighting how names can shape our experiences and interactions. The story serves as a poignant reminder of the relationships we inherit and how they influence our lives, while also reflecting on the quirks that come with such a shared identity.