In a bonus piece for the National Post’s series 'What We’ve Lost,' John Robson analyses the deterioration of civility in contemporary Canadian discourse. He argues that the trend towards increased swearing reflects a broader societal decline in virtues such as self-control, resilience, and community bonding—elements that previously made Canada a model of social cohesion. Robson remembers a time when using strong language was considered rude and highlights how this cultural shift has implications for public discourse and personal relationships.

Robson uses his own personal history with swearing to illustrate his points, noting that although he strives to avoid such language, he acknowledges the challenge posed by its ubiquitous presence in modern media and conversations. He reminisces about the days when a simple bar of soap was used to teach children about the importance of civil language, prompting reflections on how norms surrounding speech have shifted over the years. This change, he claims, is a symptom of a deeper loss within society, where self-control has been compromised in favor of unfiltered expression.

Concluding his argument, Robson urges readers to consider the consequences of abandoning self-discipline in speech. He emphasizes the value of thoughtful communication, suggesting that reclaiming a more respectful approach could pave the way for stronger relationships, better social cohesion, and a more robust national identity. By confronting the issue of swearing and its acceptance in society, he challenges Canadians to reflect on their values and the impact of their words on themselves and others.