Eid in Times of War: How to Use the Occasion to Help Your Children Out of the Spiral of Tension?
As Eid al-Fitr approaches, families face the challenge of wanting to celebrate after a month of fasting while being overwhelmed by daily news of wars and conflicts in the region.
As Eid al-Fitr approaches, many families find themselves grappling with a difficult equation: a desire to celebrate after a month of fasting and worship clashes with the constant barrage of news about wars and conflicts in the region. This burden is not felt solely by adults; children are also affected, as they quickly pick up on the tension around them and experience fear and anxiety, often without fully understanding what is happening.
Some parents tend to believe that children do not grasp the reality of global events, but psychological studies suggest otherwise. Children may not comprehend the political intricacies, but they are adept at sensing emotions. They notice the sudden silence upon entering a room, the changing expressions of their parents in front of television screens, and the rising tones of voices while watching news. A 2020 study published in Current Psychiatry Reports indicates that repeated exposure to news coverage of wars and disasters is linked to heightened levels of anxiety and fear among children, even those living far from conflict zones. The effects are amplified in environments directly affected by war, causing even more profound psychological healing needs.
In the face of these challenges, families are encouraged to create a safe and joyful atmosphere during Eid, making it a time of celebration and togetherness instead of fear and worry. Parents can help counteract the anxiety by engaging children in joyful activities and discussing their feelings openly, thereby drawing them away from the spiral of tension and allowing them to experience the festive spirit of Eid amidst the harsh realities surrounding them.