Mother of a femicide victim fills her mourning by fulfilling the roles of both mother and father to her grandchildren: 'This helps me to continue'
The mother of a femicide victim discusses her grief and the demands of raising her grandchildren after the tragic loss of her daughter.
Mariza dos Santos, a mother grieving the loss of her only daughter due to femicide, shares the overwhelming change in her life since the traumatic event. Her daughter, Larissa dos Santos Silva, was murdered by her husband, an event that not only ended her life but also traumatized her children who witnessed the violence. In the wake of this tragedy, Mariza has taken on the dual role of caregiver and guardian for her four grandchildren, ensuring they have the care and support they need during this difficult time.
Mariza expresses how the daily responsibilities of raising her grandchildren have become a source of strength for her, despite the pain of loss. She describes her new routine of driving the children to various places and fulfilling the roles of both a mother and a father, embracing the challenges that come with it. Her devotion to her grandchildren acts as a lifeline, as she states, 'If I didnβt have them, I wouldnβt continue,' underlining the deep emotional ties that keep her going.
The article highlights the broader issue of femicide in Brazil and its devastating impacts not just on the victims but also on their families. The story of Mariza and her grandchildren sheds light on the ongoing struggle against gender-based violence, showcasing how communities must rally to support those affected. As more families face similar tragedies, conversations around prevention and support for victims become increasingly crucial.