In this reflective piece, the author, a social anthropologist, shares an intimate correspondence with his deeply religious mother concerning his political beliefs and online presence. The mother expresses concern that her son's political views, showcased on social media, contradict the cultivated image he presents in his writings and public appearances. She alarmingly points out that his descent into controversial opinions could tarnish his reputation and warns against being judgmental, referencing the biblical phrase, 'Judge not, that ye be not judged.'

The author responds to his mother's concerns by addressing the communication breakdown, the implications of societal judgments of decency, and, importantly, the language around socioeconomic status. He dives into the term 'ficina,' an internet slang, and 'čvarga,' a descriptor for a group of people marked by their appearance, behavior, and views that diverge from the mainstream lifestyle or proclaimed moral standards. The term reflects a deeper stratification that can suggest not just poverty or disrepute but also a certain elite status among those who embody its characteristics.

Through this exploration, the author scrutinizes the use of language in shaping societal perceptions and the power structures at play in discussions around decency and belonging. He emphasizes that labels like 'čvarga' can encapsulate a spectrum of identities, complicating how society views those who do not conform to predominant moral narratives. The reflections serve as a critique of societal norms and the often-polarizing landscape of political opinion—and the personal ripples these discussions can cause within families and communities.