'Training in case she says no': videos simulate aggression towards women who refuse dating and marriage, and go viral on TikTok
A troubling TikTok trend simulating violent reactions towards women for rejecting romantic proposals is raising alarm about normalized aggression against women.
A disturbing trend on TikTok, referred to as "training in case she says no", showcases creators simulating aggressive reactions when rejected by women for romantic proposals like dating or marriage. These videos typically begin with a romantic approach by the male creator, followed by the phrase and ensuing violent portrayals, including physical aggression against objects or mimicking attacks, suggesting harsh consequences for rejection.
The trend has grown significantly in the past few weeks, with an analysis revealing that the examined videos have garnered more than 175,000 interactions across various profiles, indicative of their virality and reach. The creators exhibit behaviors that many may find alarming, as they showcase a disconcerting normalization of violence and aggression toward women who choose to reject advances, reflecting broader societal issues regarding gender-based violence.
Amid a backdrop of increasing femicide rates and violence against women in Brazil, these videos have sparked a significant backlash, prompting discussions around toxic masculinity and the need for social accountability. This trend not only highlights the persistence of misogynistic views but also raises pressing concerns about the potential impact on the attitudes and behaviors of young audiences consuming this content.