Most people think: When the victim leaves, domestic violence ends. But that is often not true, says an expert
An expert discusses the complexities of domestic violence, emphasizing that leaving a relationship may not necessarily end the abuse and offering insights into the various forms of domestic violence beyond physical harm.
Domestic violence encompasses more than just physical abuse; it can also manifest as psychological, economic, or controlling behavior. According to research by STEM, 17% of people have personally encountered partner violence, while nearly half have heard of someone who has experienced it. In an interview with Marvánová Vargová, deputy director of ROSA, a support organization for women experiencing domestic violence, she emphasizes that two common pieces of advice given to victims are to report the abuse to the police immediately or to leave the relationship. However, she warns that these recommendations may inadvertently place the victim in a similar position of vulnerability as the abuser.
Vargová highlights the importance of recognizing warning signs and understanding when it may be risky to involve the police or encourage a victim to leave their situation. The article outlines specific behaviors to watch for in surrounding individuals and provides guidance on how to react when one hears a neighbor in distress. It also cautions against actions that could inadvertently escalate a situation of acute danger for the victim.
The insights shared in the interview aim to educate the public on the facets of domestic violence and encourage thoughtful responses to support victims. It advocates for a more nuanced understanding of domestic abuse, urging individuals and communities to be aware of the complexities involved and to approach the subject with sensitivity to avoid repeating the patterns of control typical of abusive situations.