The article delves into the nuanced experiences of being a middle sibling, illustrating it as akin to attending a diplomatic school where negotiation skills are honed from a young age. The author identifies as the 'sandwich sister', caught between an older sister who experiences everything first and a younger brother who arrives with the unpredictability of a surprise birth. This position, the article argues, fosters a unique personality shaped by the need to carve out their own identity amidst the overshadowing presence of siblings.