The article investigates the notable divide in Ukraine between those who have taken up arms against the Russian invasion and those who have managed to evade military service. In families and workplaces, feelings of jealousy and anger are increasingly visible, revealing a potential societal fracture that could pose challenges for Ukraine in its post-war era. This issue is underscored by the personal account of Denys, a 31-year-old drone operator who volunteered early in the invasion, contrasting sharply with his wife’s uncle, who has been actively avoiding conscription for years.

As the conflict stretches over four years, the emotional landscape in Ukraine is deeply affected by these divergent choices. Denys’s situation illustrates the discomfort many families face when discussing the war. The reluctance to address these differences reflects a broader societal tension that could have lasting implications for communities that have been strained by prolonged hardship. Denys’s uncle clings to conspiracy theories, attempting to rationalize his decision to stay away from the frontline, further complicating family dynamics.

The implications of this divide go beyond individual families to the national level, where Ukraine will have to navigate the challenges of reconciliation and unity in a society marked by the scars of conflict. As feelings of resentment grow among those who have sacrificed and those who haven’t, the government and social institutions will be tasked with addressing these inequalities, ensuring a coherent and unified approach to the nation’s rebuilding efforts after the war. This assessment of societal sentiments offers insight into the post-war challenges that Ukraine could face in healing and progressing together.