In 2015, Sophie Tanner took a unique step towards self-love by marrying herself in a ceremony attended by family and friends, following a painful betrayal in her past romantic relationships. This act of 'sologamy' captured public interest and marked a significant transition in her life, helping her prioritize her own needs and well-being after a history of unhealthy relationships. After enduring a deeply hurtful experience where she was cheated on by her boyfriend with a close friend, Tanner's commitment ceremony served as both healing and empowerment. Fast forward nearly a decade, and Tanner, who is now in her forties, has found love again. Originally her experience of sologamy was meant to raise her standards and bring autonomy to her life; it appears to have achieved its purpose as she transitions from self-marriage to a relationship with a new partner. Tanner's journey illustrates the evolving nature of love and commitment, showcasing that self-empowerment can lead to fulfilling connections with others without losing the essence of self-love. This narrative not only draws attention to the concept of sologamy but it also highlights a growing acceptance of unconventional relationships in society. By choosing to prioritize herself and later finding love, Tanner's story resonates with many who struggle with maintaining self-respect amid societal expectations around love and relationship dynamics. Her evolution suggests that the journey to self-love can eventually complement finding deep connections with others.