In a discussion on the talk show 'Zilonis studijā', Ilze Auzere, a financier, culinary expert, author, and cultural patron, revealed that in all her marriages, she has been the higher earner. She emphasizes that this has not posed issues in relationships as long as her partners have maintained a sense of self-sufficiency. Auzere reflects on her last marriage, where she initially earned significantly more than her husband, but felt the dynamics shifted when his income or social status changed.

Auzere explains that in her experience, a man’s financial status can influence the relationship balance, notably when he loses his income or standing in society. Challenges arise, she argues, when societal perceptions of a man's role come into play, especially in a situation where the woman becomes quite successful and popular. This shift can lead to tension and complications that often stem from deep-seated beliefs about gender roles and earnings.

Her insights contribute to an ongoing dialogue about gender and income in relationships, encouraging a more nuanced understanding of how these factors intersect with love, status, and personal identity. Auzere’s experiences highlight the importance of self-acceptance and equal partnership in relationships, regardless of who earns more.