An Estonian couple, Vello Koitla and Riina Kappak, share their experience of finding love on Tinder at the ages of 70 and 62, emphasizing the importance of accepting each other as they are.
Vello Koitla, at 70, and his partner Riina Kappak, 62, have discovered genuine love through Tinder, challenging the stereotype of online dating for older individuals. In an interview, Vello spoke about how he initially did not feel loneliness, focusing instead on hobbies, but eventually desired companionship. He opened up about the loss of his wife at the end of the COVID-19 pandemic, describing it as a catastrophe that left his home feeling empty every evening. His children encouraged him to join Tinder, leading him to find Riina.
Riina, recently widowed, echoed Vello's sentiments regarding the emotional void experienced after loss. She mentioned that while she kept busy with her hobbies, a longing for conversation sparked her decision to try Tinder. Their relationship blossomed based on a mutual understanding that they wouldn't aim to change each other, which they believe is the secret to their happy coexistence. They emphasized the importance of acceptance in relationships formed later in life, especially after experiencing loss.
Together, Vello and Riina inspire others to not lose hope in finding love, showing that it is never too late to find companionship, regardless of age. Their story highlights the evolving landscape of dating and relationships, especially for older adults, and how platforms like Tinder can play a significant role in bringing people together. Their journey encourages openness to new experiences and reinforces the value of genuine connections, free from unrealistic expectations of changing one another.
