Tessa Mareen, a 25-year-old woman from Finland, publicly shared on social media that she has never experienced romantic love or been in a relationship, which elicited various responses, primarily critiques suggesting that she has 'too high standards' for potential partners. Tessa finds this notion amusing, stating that her criteria include qualities such as empathy, intelligence, and good communication skills, as well as shared future goals, such as living abroad instead of starting a family.

She reflects on her decision to prioritize her career over dating; Tessa left home at 16 and started her own business at 17, which limited her opportunities to meet peers. It's only in the past year that she has actively searched for a relationship, feeling confident in maintaining personal boundaries and not overselling her needs. Tessa emphasizes that a relationship is not an obligation and that individuals are not inherently owed love or partnership by anyone.

The discussion highlights broader societal expectations around dating and relationships, particularly the judgment faced by single individuals who choose to maintain certain standards in their search for a partner. Tessa's perspective challenges the narrative that equates being single with failure and encourages individuals to define their relationship criteria without succumbing to societal pressure.