In a fascinating conversation on dating dynamics, Annika Rajala, a 41-year-old resident of Helsinki, describes how newcomers to dating apps are often seen as more desirable partners. According to Rajala, this is because new users typically engage in more genuine and polite interactions, devoid of the manipulative tactics that can characterize app culture. Such individuals haven't yet been influenced by the cynicism that often develops in the dating world, making them refreshing among seasoned users.

Together with her podcast co-host, 35-year-old Juho-Jari Laine from Turku, Rajala delves into the complexities of modern dating in their podcast, "Parittomat." The podcast aims to offer honest support to singles while also providing insights for those in relationships. As they prepare to record new episodes at the Helsinki Central Library, they highlight unwritten rules that define dating in the 21st century, highlighting the pressure many feel to navigate these social norms.

Rajala notes that newbies on these platforms often face a dilemma: the fear of coming off as overly eager can inhibit their ability to express genuine interest. This discussion reflects a larger trend in the evolving landscape of online dating, where psychological barriers impact communication and connection. By exploring these dynamics, Rajala and Laine hope to foster better understanding and facilitate healthier dating experiences for all users.