Families facing 'daunting' life after voluntary assisted deaths call for more support
Families of individuals who have undergone voluntary assisted dying are advocating for more psychological support in the aftermath of their loved ones' decisions.
Families of people who have chosen voluntary assisted dying (VAD) are expressing the need for increased support following the loss of their loved ones. Jeff Tildesley, who experienced the death of his partner through VAD nearly a year ago, highlighted the importance of ongoing psychological support to help cope with the grief and challenges that arise post-death. His reflections on the final moments shared with his partner reveal a tranquil yet emotionally charged experience, emphasizing the necessity for emotional well-being after such profound events. Frances Flemming, who battled multiple sclerosis for decades, opted for VAD last March after determining it was the best decision for her situation. Her experience underscores the complexity of emotions surrounding assisted dying — from the serenity during the final moments to the aftermath of loss. Tildesley recounts the peaceful farewell they shared, filled with love and understanding, but notes that the real struggle began once he returned home to an empty house. In light of these personal stories, there is an ongoing review of New South Wales’ voluntary assisted dying legislation, which could lead to policy changes aimed at providing better community and psychological support for grieving families. Advocates are calling for systemic improvements to ensure that families are not left to navigate their grief in isolation, highlighting a critical area for reform in relation to VAD practices.