In a recent feature from Ilta-Sanomat, Sari Helin reflects on her life experiences, particularly focusing on relationships and personal growth after her divorce from Petri Sarvamaa. After more than 20 years of marriage and a divorce four years ago, she emphasizes the complexities of post-divorce life, often portrayed differently in media narratives. Helin challenges the notion that people can easily transition to friendship after a long-term relationship, highlighting that emotional ties and mutual responsibilities, especially concerning children, persist long after a separation.

Helin also speaks about her new partner, who is 17 years her junior, and underscores her belief that true happiness comes from within rather than relying on another individual. She critiques the societal misconception that one's happiness can be derived from a partner, stating that knowing oneself and what one wants is fundamental to personal well-being. This perspective is influenced by her involvement in the "Huono äiti" (Bad Mother) community, which advocates for real and honest discussions about motherhood and relationship dynamics.

By sharing her story, Helin encourages others to reassess their views on independence and self-fulfillment in relationships. She suggests that a significant part of moving forward after a relationship involves recognizing one’s own needs and aspirations, thus creating healthier, more balanced interactions in the future.