Ryookyung Kim, fascinated by weddings from a young age, found the elements of wedding structures more appealing than the romance itself. However, the overwhelming stimuli of large events—such as camera flashes and popping balloons—often caused significant discomfort. It was only later, at age 33, that Kim received an ADHD diagnosis, which helped explain many of the sensory sensitivities and challenges faced during large gatherings.

Alongside Kim is their partner Philip Chan, who shares similar neurodivergent traits and has also been diagnosed with obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) and ADHD. Understanding their unique needs led them to consider alternative wedding structures. They aimed to create a celebration that would be comfortable and accommodating, avoiding the traditional norm of loud, crowded ceremonies.

This movement reflects a broader trend where neurodivergent individuals are advocating for more inclusive and sensory-friendly event options. By customizing their wedding experience, Kim and Chan not only highlight their personal needs but also raise awareness for how traditional norms can be re-evaluated to create more accessible environments for all couples, regardless of neurodiversity.